He is all moved in. Luckily we moved things the way we did (little by little), because I was of not much help with my ankle being messed up. either way for the most part we have everything in it's place, and I can not wait to see what 2010 has in store for us as a family as well as me personally.
It's amazing, all the pain I went through with my ankle I was not able to focus on grieving for the first time since 2007, does that mean I miss him any less? Hell No, did it feel good? Kinda. I look back at how I brought 2010 in and he was with us, we put up his little shrine and it is beautiful.
Pook has been saying she wants her daddy back alive, and all I can do is comfort her. I am still so thankful that we did not grieve at the same time. I am able to answer questions and talk about things with a clear mind and clear answers not fogged by crying. I can actually focus on her needs, vs what I am going through. Man oh man how I remember the first New Years with out him, standing in the hall way holding our daughter tight while silently crying so that she did not ask me what was wrong. It feels good to know that I have done all I can to keep his memory alive, to know that it has strengthened me beyond belief.
I am excited, excited about my new future. Sad that Joe is not here to see all that we are doing, but thankful that he sent me a WONDERFUL man.
2010 will consist of doing me, losing more weight, family time and school, all 17 units of it.
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