Stronger Marriage

"WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANCE FOR WOMEN … IT’S THE “LITTLE THINGS”

When a man thinks of the word ‘romance’ he often thinks of sex. When a woman uses the word ‘romance’ she is thinking of roses, dinner out, small talk, a night without distractions, help with the kids and dishes, etc. Romance, for a woman, is a about the little things.

So husbands, if you want to improve things in the bedroom, you must start by serving your wife in other rooms of the house. Something as practical as doing the dishes, folding laundry or helping pick up after the kids could end up being very good for the bedroom later. Here are a few ideas…

* If she works, stop by her workplace and bring her her favorite drink, or surprise her with lunch.

* Buy a dozen helium-filled balloons and stuff them in her car when she’s at work or at the grocery store.

* Hide a few Hershey Kisses in a place where she'll find them.

* Write “I Love You” on the bathroom mirror with a bar of soap or a dry erase marker.

* Buy her a lottery ticket and attach a note saying “I won the lottery when I married you!”

* Write her a hand-written love letter and mail it to her. When’s the last time you did that?

* Do all the housework for a weekend. Make her breakfast in bed. Fix breakfast while she enjoys her coffee.

* Set up the coffee pot so it automatically brews her coffee just minutes before her morning alarm wakes her up.

* Spend time with her at a craft or trade show connected to one of her hobbies.

* Go for a drive at sunset.

* Take a walk, holding hands.

* Just serve her in someway.

What she wants most of all from you can’t be bought … your time ... and it’s the little things.

Husbands, don’t make the mistake of thinking romance is what happens in the bedroom … it’s not. Instead romance is what leads UP TO the bedroom. It’s the little things you do all day that get her in the mood."

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