I am always in amazement when someone can not handle a simple conversation.  Over and over the same tantrum/pity party/victimization goes one because things are not going there way or because they "misunderstood" what I was trying to say.  What was simply me voicing my feelings/needs, which I have voiced over and over, turned into a day ruined and unnecessary bullshit.  One can only take so much and one can only try so much.  At the end of the day I will have to make the right decisions for my family and if certain things continue then I will be forced to make a decision.  I am not a doormat to be walked all over and after a while the "i'm sorry" has not clout...why because, at a certain point I feel people believe that they will/can do what they want...why because a simple "i'm sorry" is supposed to fix it all.  That only works for so long before resentment and numbness kicks in....