and then the light bulb went on!!!!!!! in moments of hurt feelings we forget the greatness of knowing that at the end of the day when you needed them most they were there....and if they needed you you would/have been there.

"about whos there for you in a week, a month, 3 to 6 months a year, and i thought about the friends that were there for you, and the ones that weren't.and the ones that were but aren't, and i see those people now around us still.  As a family like you said, we'd be there for them in a heartbeat!"