Judgement Day

I always find it amazing that the people casting most judgement tend to be those that are faithful church goers, and live life in a Christ like manner.  Now of course I am not speaking about every one, however I can think of at least 5 people in my life that are regular church goers, practice, breathe and live the word that have and continue to past judgement on me and the choices I have made in my life.  Choices such as dating a new man, getting re married, getting pregnant from some one other than Josiah.  At first I was extremely bothered by this, it's a unfair judgement placed on me, I moved to fast etc.. regardless of how fast I moved or how slow I moved nothing I did or do will ever bring Josiah back.  Now, when I hear of such judgement I laugh it off, because I have come to the realization that it is them that is unhappy with their lives and their choices.  It is them with the issues of moving past Josiah's death, although they should be the ones with the most faith that they will one day be reunited with him.  My Judgement day will come, just like every one else's, and then and only then will it matter what someone says.  No one is living in my shoes, I have and will continue to do the best for me and my children, regardless of what people think.